Is my guy having erectile difficulties?
Believe it or not, an erection is a very complex event. Erectile difficulties (ED) occur when that process doesn't happen the way it should... possibly because of a problem with one of the links in the chain of events that enable the penis to fill with blood. So only a doctor is qualified to answer that question.
Reality check: If you or your partner is concerned about his ability to have an erection, to keep an erection, or the hardness of his erection for lovemaking – then there's obviously some sort of difficulty.
So check out this section – specifically designed for partners of men who have symptoms of ED.
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